Kitty Bradshaw

Writer. Traveler. Creative.

LOVE Lessons in 2020…

1. You can’t love me if I don’t love me. But once I started loving myself I could see clearly that you don’t love you. I wanted something from you that you were incapable of giving. There was never any love just trauma bonding.

Lesson: Toxic Love

Once I started getting professional help which in turn helped me to heal… I realized that I was no good for you because I enabled you to not be accountable and also vice versa. All the bad behavior was okay as long as we were both trying to survive in a sunken place. Our friendship became unstable once I started working on myself. My need to get healthy was seen a betrayal.

Love is forgiveness and also letting go.

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